Can't even start to count the number of times that I've been cheated on. Its a horrible feeling and I would never want to do it as a 'revenge' thing. Esp since what if the lady that I'm dating at the time had never cheated on someone, and I randomly decided to do it? That would be god awful. Plus I'm just way too nice to do that sort of thing.
[QUOTE USER="virginmargarita" TIME="1272328967"]I have been in two ACTUAL relationships one was 4 years long one was 5 years, both cheated on me after 3 years and 4 years. It sucks.[/QUOTE]
I'm sorry to hear that. Personally, I've been married for 6 years and I haven't even come remotely close to cheating on my wife, and I don't ever want to either.
Yeah the last one was my BEST friend while I was with the previous one, he saw what I went through, he saw how it devestated me, yet....he did it too. the difference is that he hid it from me for over a year. It's pretty crappy. I don't mean to knock the "good" guys out there. I just thought the two I had were "good" guys. I'm opting for assholes, at least I know what I'm getting into next time.